Real Sad Story
Donna is my sister, and I always thought of her as beautiful. Our father
called her his princess. When Donna entered high school, with her long
bond hair and incredible blue eyes, she caught the attention of the boys.
There were the usual crushes and school dances, phone calls and giggles,
and hours of combining and brushing her hair to make it glow. She had eye
shadow to match the perfect blue of her eyes. Our parents were protective
of us, and my father in particular kept close what over the boys she dated.
One Saturday
in April, three weeks before Donnas sixteenth birthday, a boy called
and asked her to go to an amusement
park. It was in the next state, about twenty miles away. They
would be going with four other friends. Our parent’s first
answer was a firm no, but Donna even told her to be home by eleven,
no later.
It was a great
night! The roller
coasters were
fast, the games were fun and the food was good. Time flew by. Finally
one of them realized it was already 10:45. Being you’d and slightly
afraid of our father, the boy who was driving decided he could make
it home in fifteen minutes. It never occurred to any of them
to call and ask if they could be late.
Speeding down
the highway, the driver noticed the exit too late. The car
ripped out nine metal guardrails and flipped over three times before
it came to a stop on its roof. Someone pulled Donna form the
car, and she crawled over to check o her friends. There was blood
everywhere. As she pulled her hair back from her eye’s so she could
see better, her hand slipped underneath her scalp.
The blood
was coming from her. Practically the entire top of Donnas head had
been cut off, held on by just a few inches of scalp.
When the police
cruiser arrive to rush Donna to a nearby hospital, an officer sat
with her, holding her scalp on pace. Donna asked him if she was going
to die. He told her he didn’t know.
At home, I
was watching television when a creepy feeling went through me, and
I thought about Donna. A few minutes went by, and the telephone rang.
Mom answered it. She made a groaning noise and fell to the
floor, calling for my father. They rushed out the door, telling my
sister Teri and me that Donna had been in a car accident, and that
they had to go to the hospital to get her. Teri and I stayed up for
hours waiting for them. We changed the sheets on Donna’s bed
and waited. Somewhere around four o’clock in the morning, we pulled
the sofa be out and fell asleep together.
Mom and Dad
were not prepared for what they saw at the hospital. The doctors
had to wait until out parents arrived to stitch up Donna’s
head. They didn’t expect her to survive the night.
At 7:00
A.M., my parents retuned home. Teri was still sleeping. Mom went
straight to her bed room and Dad went into the kitchen and sat at
the table. He had a white plastic garbage bag between his legs and
was opening it up when I sat down at the table with him. I
asked him how Donna was and he told me that the doctors didn’t think
she was going to make it. As I struggled to think about that, he
started pulling her clothes out of
the bag. They were soaked with blood and blond hair.
Some of the
hair had Donnas scalp attached to it. Every piece of clothing she
had worn that night was soaked with blood. I can’t remember thinking
anything. All I did was staring at the clothes. When Teri woke
up, I showed them to her. I’m sure it was an awful thing to
do, but I was in such shock that it was all I could think of.
At the hospital
later that morning, Teri and I had to wait outside for a long time
before we could see Donna. It was an old hospital and it smelled
old, and Teri and I were afraid of it. Finally we were
allowed in to see our sister. Her head wrapped in white gaze that
was stained with blood. Her face was swollen, which I couldn’t understand
because she had lost so much blood. I though she would look smaller.
She reached up and touched my long brown hair and started to cry.
The next day,
I called a neighbor who was a hairdresser and asked her to cut my
hair. It’s a funny thing— I loved my long brown hair and it curled
just right, but I never, ever missed it or wanted it back.
All I wanted was for Donna to come home and sleep in the clean sheets
that Teri and I had put on her bed.
Donna was
in the hospital for two weeks. Many of her friends went to see her,
especially Claudia, who was there a lot. Mom and Dad never liked
Claudia— maybe because she seemed "fast," maybe because she spoke
her mind; I don’t really know. They just didn’t like her being around.
Donna came
home with the entire top half of her head shaved. She had hundreds
of stitches, some of which came across her forehead and between her
left eye and eyebrow. For a while she wore a gauze cap. Eventually
she had our hairdresser neighbor cut the rest of her hair. It had
been so soaked and matted with blood that she couldn’t get it out.
The hairdresser was such a kind person. She found Donna a human
hair wig that perfectly matched her hair.
Donna celebrated
her sixteenth birthday and went back to school. I don’t know where
rotten people come form, and I don’t know why they exist, but they
do. There was a very loud-mouthed, self-centered girl in some
of Donna’s classes who took great pleasure in tormenting my
sister. She would sit behind her and pull slightly on Donnas wig.
Shed say very quietly, "Hey, Wiggly, lets see your scars." Then shed
laugh.
Donna never
said anything to anybody about her tormentor until the day she finally
told Claudia. Claudia was in most of Donnas classes, and from then
on kept a close eye on my sister. Whenever that girl got close to
Donna, Claudia would try and be there. There was something about
Claudia that was intimidating, even to the worst kids in school.
No one messed with her. Unfortunately, though, Claudia wasn’t
always around, and the teasing and name-calling continued.
One Friday
night, Claudia called and asked Donna to come spend the night at
her house. My parents didn’t want Donna to go—not just because they
didn’t like Claudia, but because they had become so protective
of Donna. In the end, they knew they had to let her go, even though
they probably spent the whole night worrying.
Claudia had
something special waiting for my sister. She knew how awful Donna
felt about her hair, so Claudia had shaved off her own beautiful
long brown hair. The next day, she took Donna wig shopping for
identical blond and brown wigs. When they went to
school that Monday, Claudia was ready for the teasers. In vocabulary
not allowed inside school walls, she set them straight so that anyone
ready to tease my sister knew they would have to mess with
Claudia. It didn’t take long for the message to get through.
Donna and
Claudia wore their wigs for over a year, until they felt their hair
had grown out enough to take them off. Only when Donna was ready
did they go to school without them. By then, she had developed
a stronger self-confidence and acceptance.
My sister
graduated from Hight School. She is married and has two great kids.
Twenty-eight years later, she is still friends with Claudia.
Note: this didnt happen
to me this story was told by Carol Gallivan.